Men feel that the act of approaching a woman is a difficult and embarrassing one. Not only that, they usually choose the wrong attitude of being too nice and openhanded with flowers, invitations for dinners, and expressing their lack of confidence and low self-esteem.
Women, on their part, are not fascinated by insecure, hypocritical, wussy men. They will either decline him on the spot or possibly more shocking, take advantage of the situation by exploiting him to furnish her meal after meal, gift after gift, and normally go out with an additional man for real love, romance, and sex.
The good boy, fawning, wussy approach may be seen Whenever a man is inviting a woman to dance or offer to pay for her drinks a drink without first developing the attraction or chemistry.
Is Cocky rather than Wussy is the answer?
The sweet boy attitude isn’t the best way, as we explained before, and acting mean and rude will not succeed as well. The best way, which has proven 90% of the time to work magically with women is the confident, bold, cocky, and funny attitude.
In this tactic you build the relationships on a give and take, a compliment and a bust (with a smile), you indicate the woman you’re confident enough to criticize her, you express yourself naturally around women, you are not scared of her, you are not concerned if she cares about you or not, you’re honest and express your opinions openly, you are playing the self-assured hard to get the funny guy. Now you bring her self-confidence to the test, you challenge her, you intrigue her, you build the attraction. Let her chase you! You ought to be her prize, a reward for her hard-earned efforts for playing her cards right with you.
For instance, you start and say something like: I like your jacket, it’s nice (a compliment), then comment: but it doesn’t fit so well with your shoes does it? (a bust), you do it on purpose, you should practice on it.
Manipulate her, like hand it to her and then take it away in the last minute, be spontaneous, unexpected, a teaser, and fascinating.
How would you know if she is interested in you?
It’s simpler than you believe and it goes like that: You engage with her: What a beautiful pair of boots you’re wearing, I like them, She is looking who is it and then say: Thank you. You: arent you melting in them in such hot weather? (smiling) or are you trying to hide your feet from me? She: (smiling) hell, no, I love them, that’s all, I’ll bet my feet are nicer compared to yours, Mr. long nose. (she responded, therefore, she is engaged too *-). You: wow, I understand you own a very good opinion about yourself, pretty lady, why won’t we arrange a feet contest…
The crucial thing is to keep it going with a light humoristic and fun attitude. Without ever even realizing it, you are both engaged in developing a relationship and building your mutual attraction.
When you start dating a woman, take into account you are not on a job interview. Don’t cause it to feel like questions and answers, don’t make it boring, don’t try to show off, talk with her about general stuff she understands and sympathizes with, such as popular Television shows and such. It can look too superficial in the beginning, but this is the way to take it. Try to keep away from, at least at first, talking about your problems at work, your relations with your parents, etc.